Anything Goes with the Bonis

Q&A Episode: Cheating, Trauma, Jealousy, and Other Meaty Questions

• What We're Into: Apple Watch & The Tudors Audiobook (07:20)
• Topic of the Day:
  • When is it wrong to be bold as Christians? (14:02)
  • How to know the right church for you? (19:37)
  • Church trauma and authoritarian Christians (27:26) 
  • Cheating in a relationship (40:32)
  • Being equally yoked (48:46)
  • How to deal with a husband who accuses you of liking someone else (57:53)

Is it wrong to be a strong woman?

• What We're Into: Chicken Binakol & Rope Flow (05:40)
• Topic of the Day: Strong Women (10:31)
• Question & Answer: How to overcome a heartbreak? (53:37)

Is This Church Trauma? (Part 2)

We continued the discussion on church trauma. Hopefully this helps model for others how to process the situation.

• What We’re Into: Orgain Protein Powder & Life of Fred (02:15)
• Topic of the Day: Church Trauma (14:44)
• Question & Answer: How to say no to relatives who ask for money without them thinking you're selfish? (01:29:12)

Is This Church Trauma? (Part 1)

We take the time to respond to a widely circulating post about What Church Trauma looks like. We talk from personal experience, stories we've heard, and, most importantly, what the Bible says. Some of these we've experienced, some of it we're guilty of and have repented from, some of it we still may still even stand by. We barely got through all the points so we'll continue it in the next episode.

• What We’re Into: Christian Rap & Sparkling Water (01:32)
• Topic of the Day: Is This Trauma? (Church Trauma) (09:16)
• Question & Answer: Balancing All Roles (1:18:02)

Marriage Rules We Break (And Which Ones We Keep)

• What We're Into (2:58)
• Topic of the Day (13:08)
• Question and Answer (1:15:06)

How to Learn Anything

What We're Into

• Carla is into the Power of Spaces (whatever that means)
• Joe is into Disney+

 

Learning How to Learn (OSDA)

• Openness
  • “A key to creativity is to pursue knowledge without a sense of whether it will be relevant in the future. Too often, people assumed they can judge in advance what they need to understand and what they do not. Instead, creative people build up their knowledge base so that they will be ready for the opportunities that come later.” – fastcompany.com
• Self-awareness
  • The Dunning–Kruger Effect
  • Learning Preferences
• Discipline
  • A Little History of the World by E.H. Gombrich
  • The Well-Educated Mind by Susan Wise Bauer
  • https://www.amblesideonline.org
  • Find a Framework
  • Frefare a Feast
• Application
  • Processing, annotating, teaching, doing, creating

 

Q&A: Dealing with interfering in-laws

Mindsets We Held Before Marriage

• What We're Into (1:32): Wavy and windy Boracay & Fitness/Gym 
• Topic of the Day (7:26): Mindsets before marriage
• Question & Answer (55:30): Is it okay to live with your in laws?

How to stop comparing yourself, overcoming burnout, and more

We took the time to answer a bunch of questions people asked under the theme of self-improvement. 

 

Segments:

• What We're Into (9:02)
• How do I stop comparing myself to other people? (16:40)
• How do I choose to do the right thing when I'm surrounded by bad things? (30:51)
• How do you overcome burnout? (39:06)
• How do you respond to failures and disappointment? (44:49)
• How do you live a normal life even with Covid? (59:32)

When can I disagree with my parents?

Is it okay to disagree with my parents? What's the difference between honoring and obeying my parents? How do I know how much money to regularly give my parents?

We  have wrestled with these questions personally and we often encounter them as we disciple people in church or have online conversations. So we take the time to discuss them in this podcast.

• What We're Into (0:47): Ad Beat Official / Foodtok
• Topic of the Day (8:55): Your relationship with your parents as adults
• Question and Answer (1:04:00): How to overcome shyness in public speaking

Bathroom Concerns and Other Essential Outdoor Questions

We take the time to share our tips and picks for gear for those who wanna start taking their family outdoors.

We answer essential questions like how do you go to the bathroom, what gear do you need, and where you can go for your first time.

• What we're into (1:33): Napoleon and the interdental toothbrush
• Topic of the Day (11:53): Hiking 101
• Question and Answer (1:10:08): Motivating yourself and finishing deadlines