Anything Goes with the Bonis
Reply 1988, Long Drives, Calling and Passion Fruit

Reply 1988, Long Drives, Calling and Passion Fruit

May 31, 2020

Carla is into another KDrama. Joe likes driving long distances in the US. We get more into calling and passion fruit gets a surprising mention.

  • 01:00 Carla is into Reply 1988

  • 06:40 Joe is into long drives in the US

  • 12:00 Topic of the Day: Calling #2

  • 16:30 Finding Meaning in whatever you’re doing and the downside of doing that yourself

  • 20:35 Are we called to change the world?

  • 24:52 Until you fix it here (heart) And address it here (home) Nothing changes here (world)

  • 26:26 Mission without Discipleship will Fail / Discipleship without Mission is a Pyramid Scheme / Discipleship with Mission is God’s Kingdom

  • 31:17 How do we know our calling?

  • 36:00 How other people confirm your calling

  • 37:33 Can other people decide your calling for you? What’s the role of community?

  • 45:33 How do you deal with burnout or callings in toxic environments?

  • 51:41 Side Topic: Is being a pastor’s wife a calling?

  • 54:19 Does every callig have to do with making disciples?

  • 57:45 Question and Answer: How do you keep your kids in the car seat?

Calling, Cavities, Authors, and Dude Perfect

Calling, Cavities, Authors, and Dude Perfect

May 24, 2020

Joe is into the Dude Perfect documentary. Carla is into cavity build up. (?!) We talk about calling. If there are a lot of questions, we'll make it into a series. Also, the kids are in the room. Listen till the end for the bloopers.

Time Codes:

  • 00:00 Why we missed a week

  • 05:36 Joe is Into Dude Perfect

  • 07:16 Carla is into the build up of cavity (?!)

  • 09:54 What is the last name of Joseph, the husband of Mary?

  • 11:00 Topic of the Day: Calling

  • 13:57 Wrong Ways to Understand Calling

  • 15:29 Three Parts of the Call of God in our Lives

  • 27:14 The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet. (Frederick Buechner)

  • 29:06 The Dude Perfect Documentary and Calling

  • 34:20 The Importance of Creating Value

  • 39:37 The Beauty of A Life in the Middle of God’s Call

  • 41:24 Sometimes One’s Calling Comes in Parcels

  • 44:31 Our Four Point Grid for Guiding Our Call (Calling over Career, Message over Brand, Character over Image, Service as Success)

  • 52:38 Q&A: Some of our favorite authors (including Philip’s!)

  • 01:03:00: Bloopers
Motherhood Episode, Carla Follows More Podcasts, and Joe’s First (Only?) Videogame Entry

Motherhood Episode, Carla Follows More Podcasts, and Joe’s First (Only?) Videogame Entry

May 10, 2020

We talk about motherhood: the impact our mothers have had on us, the darkside of motherhood, and how we honor our parents when we feel God is telling us something else from what they want us to do.

Timecodes:

  • 01:14 Joe is into Rome: Total War
  • 05:50 Carla is into Brené Brown's podcast
  • 16:21 Topic of the Day: Motherhood
  • 17:04 Carla's Lesson from Her Mom
  • 21:15 A Dad's Influence Compared to a Mom's Influence
  • 23:05 Joe's First Lesson From His Mom
  • 25:30 Motherhood and Space
  • 40:40 The Difference in our Footsteps
  • 44:34 The Danger of Idolizing Motherhood
  • 49:14 Carla's KDrama Mentoring Group
  • 50:58 Valentine's Day in the Bonifacio House
  • 55:11 The Danger of Idolizing Children
  • 01:03:02 Honor Doesn't Mean Obedience
  • 01:06:44 Question and Answer: How to Honor Toxic Parents
Marriage Questions for Singles: The One, Red Flags, Best Time, and Not Wanting Marriage

Marriage Questions for Singles: The One, Red Flags, Best Time, and Not Wanting Marriage

May 3, 2020

We finish all the marriage questions. And they're really meaty ones! 

Time Codes:

  • 00:33 - Carla is into Nature Podcasts: Nat Geo and Overstory
  • 07:43 - Joe is into The Office
  • 12:20 - How do we keep the passion alive in marriage?
  • 23:33 - How do I know this person is the one?
  • 30:30 - What do I do when my partner doesn’t want to talk about the future?
  • 35:45 - Do I break up when I see a red flag or do I accept it?
  • 44:30 - How do I bring up with someone that God is a must in marriage?
  • 48:37 - What is the best time to get married? Should we start it young?
  • 54:45 - Why do we even need marriage? Is it wrong to not want marriage?
  • 01:01:33 - How do we deal with hurtful comments from in-laws?
  • 01:07:49 - What can a wife do to encourage her husband to lead her spiritually?
  • 01:10:50 - What can a wife do when she finds out that her husband has been unfaithful?
Funny Things, AirPods, and Questions About Fights, Firsts, and Sex

Funny Things, AirPods, and Questions About Fights, Firsts, and Sex

April 26, 2020

Joe talks about one of his favorite humor sites. Carla gives her opinion on AirPods. And we get into even more marriage questions about the first year of marriage and how we resolve fights.

Time Codes:

  • 01:22 – Joe is into The Babylon Bee
  • 07:08 – Carla is into AirPods
  • 13:20 – Questions about Fighting
  • 24:12 – Why Logical Progression Isn't Good For Marriage
  • 25:12 – A Question about Sex In the First Year of Marriage
  • 36:03 – Questions About Fights and Arguments
  • 59:11 – Question: "Who do your kids look like?"
Moisturizer, Pilgrim’s Progress, and a Bunch of Marriage Questions

Moisturizer, Pilgrim’s Progress, and a Bunch of Marriage Questions

April 19, 2020

Carla listens to Joe talk about the book he's reading to Philip. Joe tries on some of Carla's moisturizer. And we get into a lot of questions that were raised by the previous episode. 

ALSO we have new sound transitions. Send us and email on joeandcarlapodcast@gmail.com if you're interested in hiring our voiceover talent. And we're learning the new equipment. Sorry for some of the problems.

Time Codes:

  • 01:51 – Joe is into the illustrated Pilgrim's Progress
  • 07:10 – Carla is into the Skin Fix Barrier Plus
  • 11:48 – Topic of the Day: Questions About Marriage
  • 14:00 – Marriage and Money (how we budget, who's better at handling money, dual income homes)
  • 34:50 – Marriage and Character (nagging wives, helicopter husbands, my partner's past)
  • 01:03:05 – Question and Answer

 

 

 

 

 

Chef’s Tools, Leading in Anxiety, and Thoughts on Marriage

Chef’s Tools, Leading in Anxiety, and Thoughts on Marriage

April 12, 2020

Carla talks about watching more Masterclasses. Joe talks about a book he's reading. And we spend a lot of time looking at Marriage from different angles.

Time Codes:

  • 01:09 – We read some emails
  • 02:58 – Carla is into Thomas Keller's Masterclass
  • 08:02 – Joe is into The Leader's Journey
  • 12:54 – Topic of the Day: Marriage
  • 18:15 – Carla quotes The Meaning of Marriage
  • 23:20 – Joe compares marriage to drafting an NBA player
  • 26:00 – Can you marry the wrong person?
  • 29:52 – How family history plays into marriage
  • 36:08 – Marriage and Roles to Play
  • 43:01 – Some of the beauty of Marriage
  • 46:54 – Leadership and personality
  • 48:09 – The effects of wrong expectations
  • 50:13 – Joe addresses the men
  • 55:21 – Q&A
Soup, Ken Burns, Intro/Extro, and Getting Into Movies

Soup, Ken Burns, Intro/Extro, and Getting Into Movies

April 5, 2020

Joe talks about his love for soups. Carla talks about Ken Burns the person behind the effect. We discuss Introversion and Extroversion and the benefits and harms of labels. Then Joe gives his thoughts about getting into movies.

Time Codes:

  • 05:19 – Joe is into soups.
  • 11:25 – Carla is into Ken Burns
  • 21:16 – Studying Storytelling Choices
  • 24:24 – Topic of the Day: Introversion and Extroversion
  • 32:08 – The Benefit of Labels
  • 35:48 – The Downside of Labels #1
  • 37:22 – Personal Projects over Personalities
  • 44:49 – Introversion or Shyness?
  • 46:57 – The Downside of Labels #2
  • 52:20 – Q&A
Wax Melts, Pitch Meetings, and Crash Landing On You

Wax Melts, Pitch Meetings, and Crash Landing On You

April 5, 2020

Here's the second episode! Carla describes a new discovery in the US. Joe shares one of his favorite YouTube shows. We discuss the Topic of the Day which is related to Carla's skin care, Philip's reading, and scented candles.

Time Codes:

  • 00:00 – 06:30: Carla is into Wax Melts
  • 06:31 – 11:10: Joe is into Pitch Meetings by Ryan George
  • 11:11 – 11:57: Revealing Topic of the Day
  • 11:58 – 12:53: Why Carla Isn't a Good Fan, but Joe Is

*minor spoilers*

  • 12:54 – 18:44: Back to the Topic of the Day – Carla's First Impressions 
  • 18:45 – 20:11: Joe's First Impressions
  • 20:12 – 40:21: Topic of the Day
  • 40:22 – 42:12: How Carla Identifies with the Topic of the Day
  • 42:13 – 46:15: How Carla sees Joe in the Topic of the Day
  • 46:16 – 49:20: Q&A: How did you two meet?
  • 49:21 – 49:58: Outro
Finally Podcasting, How We Roll, and The COVID-19 Quarantine

Finally Podcasting, How We Roll, and The COVID-19 Quarantine

March 28, 2020

Welcome to the first episode of Anything Goes! We talk about what to expect in this podcast, our format, and our thoughts on starting it. This episode features Mongolian warfare under Genghis Khan, interdental toothbrushes, how we got Philip to enjoy reading, and our topic of the day: being quarantined during COVID-19.

Time Codes:

  • 00:00 – 07:04: Intro
  • 07:05 – 10:25: Joe is into Genghis Khan
  • 10:26 – 20:04: Carla is into interdental toothbrushes
  • 20:05 – 33:14: Topic of the Day – COVID 19
  • 33:15 – 33:41: Preview of Next Episode's Topic
  • 33:42 – 42:25: Question and Answer
  • 42:26 – 42:58: Outro

 

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