Episodes
Wednesday Oct 07, 2020
The Social Dilemma, BTS the Band, and BTS to Carla's Vlog
Wednesday Oct 07, 2020
Wednesday Oct 07, 2020
We discuss The Social Dilemma. Besides our regular sections, we talk about the Behind the Scenes of one of Carla's recent house tour vlog.
- 07:55 – BTS on Carla's House Tour Vlog
- 14:36 – Carla's Into BTS
- 18:47 – Joe's Into the PC Master Race
- 20:11 – Topic of the Day: The Social Dilemma
- 1:23:25 – Question and Answer
Wednesday Sep 30, 2020
It's Okay Not To Be Okay
Wednesday Sep 30, 2020
Wednesday Sep 30, 2020
Our longest episode yet! Glad to be back!
- 3:52 – What We're Into
- 12:47 – Joe and Carla's Special Offer
- 13:47 – Topic of the Day: It's Okay Not To Be Okay
- 46:19 – Pete Scazzero quote: “Allow yourself to experience the full weight of your feelings. Allow them without censoring them. Then you can reflect thoughtfully and decide what to do with them. Trust God to come to you through them. This is the first step in the hard work of discipleship.” See the other podcast mentioned here.
- 1:24:27 – Question and Answer
Friday Jun 19, 2020
Five Questions For Reflecting on the Pandemic
Friday Jun 19, 2020
Friday Jun 19, 2020
Our flight home was canceled so we're still here. Here are some of our thoughts reflecting on this pandemic.
- 02:21 Carla is into AmblesideOnline.org
- 05:50 Joe is into reading The Hobbit to Philip
- 08:45 Philip is into cartoons
- 09:54 Topic of the Day: Pandemic Thoughts
- 10:28 What would you do differently if you knew there would be a pandemic?
- 16:19 What are some of your unexpected pains in this pandemic?
- 27:43 Hebrews 11 and the Philippines
- 30:37 What are some of your unexpected joys or benefits in this pandemic?
- 38:30 “I don’t want to do a call when a text would have done. I don’t want to do a face-to-face meeting when an online call would have done.”
- 39:42 How has this pandemic affected your values?
- 45:22 What are you learning about God during this pandemic?
- 54:10 Q&A: “Is it selfish of me to want my husband to make me happy?”
Tuesday Jun 09, 2020
From the West to the East, From the Womb to the Mountains
Tuesday Jun 09, 2020
Tuesday Jun 09, 2020
It's a special Manu episode!
- 00:50 Joe is into Westerns
- 04:14 Carla is into everything Korean
- 15:25 Michael Breen and Mike Breen are different people
- 16:40 Philip is into Japanese Stuff
- 18:22 Special Episode: Manu Episode
- 19:56 Challenges in Having Children
- 22:08 The Husband’s Role in Loving and Leading His Wife Through Reproductive Challenges
- 26:35 The Wisdom of God in Providing a Man and Woman as Parents
- 35:27 The Tension When One Parent Has Stronger Faith for an Issue Than the Other
- 39:52 Carla’s Default Mode
- 42:07 Joe Defends People Named Karen
- 43:40 The Idea for a Potential Homebirth is …birthed?
- 59:35 Manu the Unpredictable
- 01:05:34 Question of the Day: Dream Hiking Destination
Monday Jun 01, 2020
Reply 1988, Long Drives, Calling and Passion Fruit
Monday Jun 01, 2020
Monday Jun 01, 2020
Carla is into another KDrama. Joe likes driving long distances in the US. We get more into calling and passion fruit gets a surprising mention.
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01:00 Carla is into Reply 1988
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06:40 Joe is into long drives in the US
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12:00 Topic of the Day: Calling #2
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16:30 Finding Meaning in whatever you’re doing and the downside of doing that yourself
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20:35 Are we called to change the world?
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24:52 Until you fix it here (heart) And address it here (home) Nothing changes here (world)
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26:26 Mission without Discipleship will Fail / Discipleship without Mission is a Pyramid Scheme / Discipleship with Mission is God’s Kingdom
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31:17 How do we know our calling?
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36:00 How other people confirm your calling
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37:33 Can other people decide your calling for you? What’s the role of community?
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45:33 How do you deal with burnout or callings in toxic environments?
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51:41 Side Topic: Is being a pastor’s wife a calling?
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54:19 Does every callig have to do with making disciples?
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57:45 Question and Answer: How do you keep your kids in the car seat?
Monday May 25, 2020
Calling, Cavities, Authors, and Dude Perfect
Monday May 25, 2020
Monday May 25, 2020
Joe is into the Dude Perfect documentary. Carla is into cavity build up. (?!) We talk about calling. If there are a lot of questions, we'll make it into a series. Also, the kids are in the room. Listen till the end for the bloopers.
Time Codes:
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00:00 Why we missed a week
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05:36 Joe is Into Dude Perfect
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07:16 Carla is into the build up of cavity (?!)
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09:54 What is the last name of Joseph, the husband of Mary?
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11:00 Topic of the Day: Calling
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13:57 Wrong Ways to Understand Calling
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15:29 Three Parts of the Call of God in our Lives
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27:14 The place God calls you to is the place where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet. (Frederick Buechner)
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29:06 The Dude Perfect Documentary and Calling
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34:20 The Importance of Creating Value
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39:37 The Beauty of A Life in the Middle of God’s Call
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41:24 Sometimes One’s Calling Comes in Parcels
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44:31 Our Four Point Grid for Guiding Our Call (Calling over Career, Message over Brand, Character over Image, Service as Success)
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52:38 Q&A: Some of our favorite authors (including Philip’s!)
- 01:03:00: Bloopers
Monday May 11, 2020
Monday May 11, 2020
We talk about motherhood: the impact our mothers have had on us, the darkside of motherhood, and how we honor our parents when we feel God is telling us something else from what they want us to do.
Timecodes:
- 01:14 Joe is into Rome: Total War
- 05:50 Carla is into Brené Brown's podcast
- 16:21 Topic of the Day: Motherhood
- 17:04 Carla's Lesson from Her Mom
- 21:15 A Dad's Influence Compared to a Mom's Influence
- 23:05 Joe's First Lesson From His Mom
- 25:30 Motherhood and Space
- 40:40 The Difference in our Footsteps
- 44:34 The Danger of Idolizing Motherhood
- 49:14 Carla's KDrama Mentoring Group
- 50:58 Valentine's Day in the Bonifacio House
- 55:11 The Danger of Idolizing Children
- 01:03:02 Honor Doesn't Mean Obedience
- 01:06:44 Question and Answer: How to Honor Toxic Parents
Monday May 04, 2020
Monday May 04, 2020
We finish all the marriage questions. And they're really meaty ones!
Time Codes:
- 00:33 - Carla is into Nature Podcasts: Nat Geo and Overstory
- 07:43 - Joe is into The Office
- 12:20 - How do we keep the passion alive in marriage?
- 23:33 - How do I know this person is the one?
- 30:30 - What do I do when my partner doesn’t want to talk about the future?
- 35:45 - Do I break up when I see a red flag or do I accept it?
- 44:30 - How do I bring up with someone that God is a must in marriage?
- 48:37 - What is the best time to get married? Should we start it young?
- 54:45 - Why do we even need marriage? Is it wrong to not want marriage?
- 01:01:33 - How do we deal with hurtful comments from in-laws?
- 01:07:49 - What can a wife do to encourage her husband to lead her spiritually?
- 01:10:50 - What can a wife do when she finds out that her husband has been unfaithful?
Monday Apr 27, 2020
Funny Things, AirPods, and Questions About Fights, Firsts, and Sex
Monday Apr 27, 2020
Monday Apr 27, 2020
Joe talks about one of his favorite humor sites. Carla gives her opinion on AirPods. And we get into even more marriage questions about the first year of marriage and how we resolve fights.
Time Codes:
- 01:22 – Joe is into The Babylon Bee
- 07:08 – Carla is into AirPods
- 13:20 – Questions about Fighting
- 24:12 – Why Logical Progression Isn't Good For Marriage
- 25:12 – A Question about Sex In the First Year of Marriage
- 36:03 – Questions About Fights and Arguments
- 59:11 – Question: "Who do your kids look like?"
Monday Apr 20, 2020
Moisturizer, Pilgrim's Progress, and a Bunch of Marriage Questions
Monday Apr 20, 2020
Monday Apr 20, 2020
Carla listens to Joe talk about the book he's reading to Philip. Joe tries on some of Carla's moisturizer. And we get into a lot of questions that were raised by the previous episode.
ALSO we have new sound transitions. Send us and email on joeandcarlapodcast@gmail.com if you're interested in hiring our voiceover talent. And we're learning the new equipment. Sorry for some of the problems.
Time Codes:
- 01:51 – Joe is into the illustrated Pilgrim's Progress
- 07:10 – Carla is into the Skin Fix Barrier Plus
- 11:48 – Topic of the Day: Questions About Marriage
- 14:00 – Marriage and Money (how we budget, who's better at handling money, dual income homes)
- 34:50 – Marriage and Character (nagging wives, helicopter husbands, my partner's past)
- 01:03:05 – Question and Answer